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Most of the time online dating works well.
Results are good, but it depends on how you measure success.
Finding your match.
This may not be the outcome you’d expected. Some dating sites are better than others. Finding your match is the key reason for joining in the first place.
It is widely thought that FREE Dating Sites are the worst performers, as the majority of members join just because it’s free, and are not really serious about the whole game.
There are also very expensive dating sites, where all sorts of Algorithms are used, at great cost to you, …

Choose a catchy, simple screen name.
Avoid overly sexual names – like Sexy Gal or Hot Chick. Go for a non-commital name like Sunshine Sue or Daisy Mae. Avoid names that include a hint about where you live or what you do – bad choices are Liverpool Lou, PC Webb, Sally69 or anything too giveaway. Avoid numbers. Use a name that demands more interest from a potential friend.

Write a good, attention-grabbing headline.
This should be meaningful and give a hint of who you are or what you want, without revealing too much personal information. Good headlines arouse interest to …

Ask most couples that claim they have had a happy married life (to the same person) for zillions of years and they might tell you the secrets of their success. Here are 10 such like snippets of advice.

1. Treat every outing as your first date.
Even when you are married and settled you can surprise your partner with a flirty text or two, and ask them out on a date. Ask them what their innermost thoughts are. This fresh approach helps to keep your relationship fun and spicy. Take each other on dates all the time and it will …

I joined match.com and found some great women. I met a few, but most were too far to travel to, sensibly. I was in the forces but left with some injuries, so I always explain this to women before we get too involved. I tired lots of other dating sites, and found the best was Parship. I enjoyed using that site and also joined UdateME. Now things began to speed up. I had 3 dates within a week. The second date was the answer to my prayers. Amazing to meet Fiona, and we fell head over heals in love. Been going out for 3 months and don't need any dating sites any more, but thanks anyway for the best result.
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