UdateME is safe and friendly online dating for singles living in the UK.

If you’re looking for a reliable, genuine dating site to find a reliable, genuine person then UdateME could be your answer.
We can help you to find a friend to chat to online, maybe meet up with, and possibly form a loving relationship – UdateME are in the business of helping you to achieve that.

It is completely free to join UdateME. It’s quick and easy to join. As soon as you do, you can add your photo and create your own personal profile page. It costs nothing to send a wink so you can start contacting the people that you like straight away. Search by location to find other singles in your area. You can optionally pay to upgrade and as a full member you can also use more advanced search options to find other singles by interest, age, postcode, religion or whether they have children or smoke.

Every time you log in to UdateME you can see who has been looking at your profile. You can access your own UdateME inbox, which contains all your sent and received winks and personal messages. There are additional features for full members which allow you to reveal more of your personality, including video profiles and your dating diary. These features encourage greater contact from other members as they get to know more about you. As a full member you also have the ability to see who is online and message any other people you find interesting or attractive.

So what are you waiting for? Join UdateME today and start meeting new people straight away.

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UdateME is a non-adult dating site, but sometimes, some people are looking for a little more spice in their relationship.
If that’s your desire, our sister site Xflirt is where you need to head – You’ll find it HERE.


Success Stories
I joined match.com and found some great women. I met a few, but most were too far to travel to, sensibly. I was in the forces but left with some injuries, so I always explain this to women before we get too involved. I tired lots of other dating sites, and found the best was Parship. I enjoyed using that site and also joined UdateME. Now things began to speed up. I had 3 dates within a week. The second date was the answer to my prayers. Amazing to meet Fiona, and we fell head over heals in love. Been going out for 3 months and don't need any dating sites any more, but thanks anyway for the best result.
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