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DATING ADVICE - Compatibility
Compatibility
You are only likely to be truly compatible with 1% of people. That's a fact. So the more people you get to meet the better your chance could be to find a compatible and happier relationship. You can find out a lot about potential partners you hook up with online, but it's never the same as meeting someone "in the flesh".
When you try out online dating, treat it like you're buying a used car - find the answers to all those questions before you travel miles to "view". Whilst the relationship is "online" you don't have to meet anyone face to face, so that's the time to get to know them, ask questions, talk about interests and what you've been up to. Are they likely to be interesting and interested in you?
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Ask the right questions, but not in a quizzing mode. Create a nice relaxing atmosphere with a bit of humour, banter and flattery. Make yourself (rather than your partner) the object of any funny or cheeky remarks though, so you don't offend them.
Many people fall into the trap of hooking up with one of the first people they meet on UdateME. Get yourself about a bit. Make contact with as many people as you can. Don't always go for "looks" alone, from their photo - beauty is often much more than skin deep. Get to know as many people as you can. If you feel you have too little compatability with someone, move on politely to someone else. Online dating has the benefit of giving you an anonymous ticket to "play the field" in an anonymous way - allowing you to be a bit more daring than you'd be if you were face to face.
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